i like that we say “oh, man” to express disappointment
because men are disappointing
NYT: What books are you embarrassed not to have read yet?
There are three things that the Harry Potter fandom seems to universally agree upon:
1. Umbridge is awful
2. Maggie Smith is a perfect Professor McGonagall
3. Everyone should be at least slightly bothered by DID YOU PUT YOUR NAME IN THE GOBLET OF FIRE?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!!
i am laughing because i just started imagining a gordon ramsay-like feminist writer who, rather than helping to keep restaurants in business, goes to writers of television shows and films and chastises them for the sexism, racism, and general lack of diversity in their scripts
#(gordon ramsay voice) SO YOU’RE TELLING ME THAT THIS WONDERFUL FEMALE CHARACTER#HAS BEEN STRIPPED OF HER INDEPENDENCE TO BE USED AS A PLOT TOOL FOR THE MALE PROTAGONIST?#SHE’S A WOMAN NOT A FUCKING ANIMAL SIDEKICK#WHAT IS THIS THE 1960S?#LOOK AT THIS TALENTED ACTRESS YOU HAVE TO WORK WITH#SHE HAS SO MUCH POTENTIAL AND YOU ARE REDUCING HER ROLE TO A FUCKING ZOMBIE#FUCK ME#(throws script down)
It sucks when someone you have feelings for doesn’t share those feelings; it happens to women all the time, too. We hear “I just want to be friends” and “you’re like one of the guys” and “you’re like a sister to me” just as often. But you’ll never hear a woman complain that guys just don’t appreciate a Nice Girl because we’re taught it’s our own fucking fault when we’re rejected—we aren’t pretty enough or thin enough or sexy enough, we weren’t sexual enough or were too sexual, we put out too much or too little or too soon or not soon enough, we didn’t wear our hair the right way or our skirt the right length, we’re “too tomboyish” or “too butch” or “too feminine”, or we’re “not their type”, or we’re otherwise not good enough in various ways to entice the man to grace us with his affection.
But when we’re not interested in someone, we’re vilified. We’re the bitch that lead them on, the bitch who let them buy us dinner but didn’t want to date them, the bitch who doesn’t appreciate a nice guy, the bitch they were nice to and then got nothing in return from.
And, frankly, fuck those people. Showing interest in me, being friendly with me, getting close to me, or eating a meal with me (even if they paid for it) doesn’t obligate me to open my heart or my legs. And anyone who doesn’t appreciate my friendship sure as hell doesn’t deserve my love or my pussy."
READ IT. READ IT ALL.